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.” ~ John Buchan Back in February, I spoke with a friend who told me that she was struggling with the dating scene. It might induce a bit of anxiety to visit a new pond.She felt as if she was hanging around the same people over and over again. I didn’t have a whole lot of sympathy for her situation, and merely suggested, “If you are always fishing in the same pond, you are always going to be catching the same fish.” Period. She chuckled as she clearly knew what I meant, but I wasn’t sure that she was inspired to go find any new ponds in which to fish. For many people, it’s human nature to avoid making ourselves uncomfortable and pushing outside of our comfort zones. Going to find new ponds would take her outside of her comfort zone.I told this friend that no one said fishing in new ponds was going to be easy.The only message I've had is from someone 10 yrs my junior who looks like a Russian model and who suddenly turned out to be in the US. She never replied again after I pointed that out, lol. Met up with a guy, not who they say they are complete drop kick, it’s only a hook up site nothing else. You have no control on who messages you unlike tinder. I tried the site and it’s no different to all the others Fake people being paid to try and get you to join other sites to chat to th3m. They said they lived in Docklands so I asked what street in Docklands (cooper or high street) the scammer came back with Cooper street which is quite funny considering there isn’t a cooper st within 30km of Docklands.I have wasted hours and hours on this ridiculous site to no avail and I usually go alright with women. So from that point I closed my account and will never att3mpt these scam sites again The ad on tv says you don’t have to pay anything,,, when I first joined I did pay for 3 months,,, not a lot happened but I persisted for the 3 months, I decided to give it a rest for a week or two then started to search again,, in the meantime my subscription ran out,,, currently I have 8 meet me’s and I can’t see them unless I pay to rejoin,,,,, REALLY,,,, is that how it works,, The ad is a joke,,,,,, don’t play with people’s feelings,, Not worth the time. If you haven't already deleted your account in frustration you will find that POF will delete it randomly without warning.I also think it helps if you go in with the attitude that you are just fishing for fun, and not with expectations that you are going to catch the biggest fish ever and win the whole fishing tournament! I think the fish can pick up on that vibe from a mile away.
While I’m using this fishing analogy, here is one other thought: you also have to know when to cut bait and move on.
Anyway, pretty sure if enough angry men hit the report button your account gets deleted.
So ladies, do yourself a favour and just don't bother with it or keep your profile hidden as much as possible while using the "block" function judiciously. This Site offers you A Huge Amount of FAKE Profiles.... Plenty Of Fish site is A Total Waste of Your Time / Energy / Emotions. Look on more reputable sites than what this One is otherwise you can be very easily sucked in & could end up being Scammed because it almost happened to me! the ONLY good thing i have to say is at least its free to send messages, other than that...complete garbage, fake profile views, fake mutual matches and fake messages on top of all the scammers...
They take your money saying you need to become a premium member to view profiles.
Once you do pay you get scammers wanting to video chat verifying credit card details. So many fake profiles women say they're 40yo and look 20. As expected one has to have their wits about them there is always a catch but if one sticks to the free part it works great.
NEVER, EVER PAY TO UPGRADE, only use the standard free account because its all you need to reply to the rare genuine message you'll receive. I won't bother making a new profile i think its embarrassing how unprofessional the site is. The site is not monitored or fixed when it has issues. If you make another account, you can do that successfully but you won't be able to send any messages and about 15 to 30 minutes later, you will be booted out of the app and you can't sign in again.