Reading his signals dating
But I’ve learned that many others aren’t like me, and so I don’t take it personally.
The bottom line is everyone has their own comfort levels, and that may not be tied to how they feel about you. Not wanting to discuss an issue at the time you want means they just don’t care.
So try not to put so much weight on when the kiss lands. Some people just aren’t comfortable showing affection in public. Or maybe it’s a cultural thing — being Asian, I have never seen my parents show any public affection. I’m sure part of it has to do with their relationship dynamic.
Let’s face it: We, as people, have a difficult time understanding each other, especially when it comes to dating and relationships.
Since we see the world through our own unique lenses, based on our story and what we’ve been through, each of us takes in information differently.
Most likely, you’re pulling from your own insecurities or comparing this person’s response time to others from your past.
Be patient: The truth will eventually float to the top.
But through my relationships, I’ve learned that many people are not wired like me. Just find out what the real reason is, and don’t make a big deal out of it if it’s not a big deal.